Travel Tips

Travelling queer and solo: what actually helps

Solo travel gets sold as a personality trait. In practice it is a series of small logistical decisions, and a few of them make the difference between a trip that felt free and a trip that felt lonely.

Book one thing on the first day. Not a full itinerary, just one anchor: a walk, a meal, a market. It gets you out of the room, it gives the day a shape, and it usually produces the first conversation of the trip. Everything after that is easier.

Choose where you sleep for the walk home, not for the photos. A cheaper room forty minutes out of the centre is not cheaper if you end up in a taxi every night because the last stretch does not feel right. Ask about the route, not just the address.

Group experiences are underrated when you are alone. Six people doing the same thing for three hours is a low-pressure way to meet people, and nobody has to be interesting on demand. If it does not click, it ends and you get your evening back.

And say what you want. Hosts are not mind readers. Tell them you want a quiet day, or that you want to be somewhere loud, or that you would rather skip the bar crawl entirely. The trip gets better the moment you stop being polite about it.